When I think about the Laws of Attraction, I wholeheartedly believe that what comes your way, you are responsible for. I'm not referring to say being run over in the street or your house being burgled, I'm referring to the attitudes that attract your circumstances.
When a person has a positive attitude, to me they radiate. Just as in when a person has a negative attitude, it's unattractive, sour, what possible good could come their way? The Laws work in a way that in fact your attitude to life becomes a metaphorical magnet towards the things you desire in life.
Birds of a feather flock together
Like attracts like
Whatever you want wants you
What you sow, you reap
What you put out you get back
What comes around goes around
I believe it is through the energy towards things that we want in life, we can achieve. Affirmations, ie, reminding us that we can do or have a certain thing, positive thinking they all help in receiving what we truly want. Not looking towards others to change our path, making excuses as to why we don't have this or that, instead working out what is missing from our lives and concentrating on attracting that.
"When you take hold of that concept and start to act on it, then you begin to see how the energy in your life moves toward a new, positive, success-oriented direction. Energy and reality are one.
Imagine what you can achieve if you convert your worn out, negative thinking to positive thinking. Suddenly you attract a different type of energy. The energy that surrounds you is full of promise and you’re ready to receive it.
You discover the real meaning of possibility thinking because you’re living in the flow of positive energy where anything is possible, even predictable, when you apply the Law of Attraction to your life." Richard Ingersoll, January 15, 2009, Laws of Attraction Membership Library